A cursory glance at marriage
statistics tells you that half of marriages end in divorce, including 41% of
first marriages. In fact, “approximately every 36 seconds” a couple gets
divorced.[1] Sadly, research shows that
atheists and agnostics are slightly less likely to be divorced than people of
Christian faith.[2]
According to an article by Luisa Dillner, couples spend an average of 2-2½ hours
together each day, but that is including 54 minutes for the combined activities
of watching TV and housework.[3] I’m guessing with the rise
of dishwashers that most of these couples aren’t washing and drying dishes
together while enjoying a conversation about their respective days, so some
days almost half of the average couples' time spent together is passive. With
such a lack of quality time spent together, combined with society’s low view of
the marriage commitment, it isn’t much of a surprise to see such high divorce
rates.
Juxtapose this with a Christian’s
commitment to his or her relationship with God. In his book Prayer: The Timeless
Secret of High-Impact Leaders, Dave Earley indicates that studies show
pastors admit to praying only seven to fifteen minutes on any given day.[4] Another study of over 1500
Christians found respondents said they spend between 10 and 20 minutes studying
the Bible (with 90 percent responding that they read the Bible daily), “but
only 31 percent said they set aside a substantial period of time each day to
pray.”[5]
It is hard to learn how to manage
your time wisely so that you can spend quality time with God both praying and
studying Scripture. If you are anything like me, you can do it for a few days
at a time here and there, but making habits of wise time management and getting
your priorities straight is a struggle.
Prayer isn’t easy for everyone.
Some people aren’t good at expressing themselves, but we are called to pray in
the Spirit (Eph 6:18; Jude 20), thus we are given the Holy Spirit to help us in
this life, and one of the aspects in which the Spirit helps us is in prayer. We
also know that Scripture is of utmost importance (Ps 1:1-3; 119; 2 Tm 3:16-17).
Look to Jesus as the example. He prayed frequently (Mt 14:23; Mk 1:35; 6:46; Lk 3:21; 5:16; 6:12; Jn 17, Heb 5:7), and was well-versed in Scripture (Mt 4:4, 7;
5:21; Lk 4:4, 12 see Dt 5:18; 6:13, 16; 8:3; 20:14). So, prayer and study of
Scripture are vital aspects of your faith.
That said, our whole life is lived
to honor God. We may not all have the opportunity to work for a non-profit that
is helping to heal the broken and feed the hungry, but that doesn’t mean our
work isn’t important and honoring to God. Do you work at a dental office? You
are honoring God because you are helping to care for the mouths of your fellow
man, and thereby loving your neighbor. Do you work at Walmart? You are part of
a company that helps provide millions of people with reasonably priced goods
that include food and clothing so they can survive. If your work isn’t honoring
God in some way, get new work. Otherwise, use every opportunity to worship God
through your work. Worship and love God through your treatment of your fellow
man, by the way you raise your children and how you cherish your spouse, but
also find time to pray and dig into Scripture. Go back to my first post and
remember to ask yourself at least one question periodically: “Am I representing
Christ well?/Would people recognize that I am a Christian?”[6] Now add to that, do I know
God better today and love Him more today than yesterday?
For further reading on Jesus use of
Scripture, see the article on Jews for Jesus entitled “Jesus’ References to Old
Testament Scriptures,” by Rich Robinson. http://bit.ly/2ASsG9f
[1]
“32 Shocking Divorce Statistics,” McKinley Irvin Family Law, October 30, 2012,
accessed March 7, 2018, https://www.mckinleyirvin.com/Family-Law-Blog/2012/October/32-Shocking-Divorce-Statistics.aspx.
[2]
“New Marriage and Divorce Statistics Released,” Barna, March 31, 2008, accessed
March 7, 2018, https://www.barna.com/research/new-marriage-and-divorce-statistics-released/.
[3]
Luisa Dillner, “Love by numbers,” The Guardian, June 9, 2007, accessed March 7,
2018, https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2007/jun/09/familyandrelationships.
[4]
Dave Earley, Prayer: The Timeless Secret of High-Impact Leaders (Chattanooga,
Tennessee: Living Ink Books, 2008), 163, Kindle.
[5]
Cath Martin, “Evangelicals admit struggling to find time for daily Bible
reading and prayer,” Christianity Today, April 14, 2014, accessed March 7, 2018,
https://www.christiantoday.com/article/daily-bible-reading-and-prayer-is-a-struggle-for-many-evangelicals/36765.htm.
[6]
Samantha DeVoir, “Living with Purpose,” Prayer and Purpose, February 22, 2018,
accessed March 7, 2018, http://prayerandpurpose.blogspot.com/2018/02/starting-out.html.
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